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Not sensitive

I am feeling annoyed for no real reason.

Actually it's since last night. I was dismayed by his lack of sensitivity and reciprocation. How could he just leave like that. I know it was late, but honestly i felt a bit degraded.

Should I tell him? But how? Perhaps it's just a one-off and hence it's not necessary to bring it up unless he repeats it?

He probably didn't realise I feel offended, and am still feeling the resentment.

He is usually sensitive but why?

What's worse is that he probably thinks I am fine and did not even call me until I did so this afternoon. Well I told you I got to do my readings in the afternoon, but you could still ask me out for dinner.

Totally not in the mood to do anything. It is tormenting having to guess what the other person is thinking/doing/feeling.

I need a stress ball or a punching bag right now!
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  1. AnonymousAugust 4, 2014 at 12:31 AM

    be careful. That's a bad sign surfacing. When a guy being insensitive or indifferent is thing u should be worried about
    I'm not trying to scare you with any possibility but you have to beware of his recent behavior.
    He either slowly falling out from this whole thing or is hiding something away from you.
    Just saying.

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    1. untold stories August 5, 2014 at 9:21 PM

      Thanks:) We are ok now la..check the latest post later. But I know what you meant...

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  2. soul232August 4, 2014 at 2:19 AM

    maybe something's bothering him, something that he cant share yet with u

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    1. untold stories August 5, 2014 at 9:22 PM

      Not quite that actually... will elaborate in another post later.

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  3. Shadow WindAugust 5, 2014 at 5:12 PM

    should probably be open to him bout what u're feelings, sometimes we miss the cues as well and maybe he just didn't realize you were feeling annoyed.

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    1. untold stories August 6, 2014 at 4:25 PM

      Yes but sometimes I am afraid of communicating too much.

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  4. WilliamAugust 5, 2014 at 7:09 PM

    Possibilities:
    1) He is insensitive
    2) You're expecting him to be psychic
    3) Anything in between (1) and (2)

    This situation will repeat itself many times as time goes by. Manage it well.

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  5. untold stories August 5, 2014 at 9:24 PM

    spot on. And I can really see it repeating if there's lack of communication.

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