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One-week Love (Part 2)

Guylian. Harbour. Playground. Hugged. Held hands.

These were on the first night.

I didn't sleep well that night. It was late when I got home. I was very excited, to have met someone that I could connect with (mentally and physically *shy*).

I am not sure if I had much sleep that night. But I did remember having a weird dream.

I dreamed about bears, the black bear and the polar bear, and some other animals which I couldn't remember. Yes, why bears? Haha. Because, probably, he bear hugged me that night. Yes, that's the type of hug that makes you fall for a person.

Another contributing factor to this weird dream would be the humungus rats we saw that night in the playground. Yes, right in the city, rats scavenged for food at night.

That was Monday night.

We continued to chat, on and off, for the next few days. Flirts and generally what-are-you-doing messages.

There was a night, probably Wednesday night, around 10 that he said he would like to have ice-cream. I think he was referring to the real one. But since it was late, and I was already in pajamas, I said no.

I didn't ask him out till Friday because I didn't want things to move too quickly. And, knowing that his mum was not very well at home, he probably needed more time with his family. I didn't want to make him feel that I was a sticky rice, that's all.

I was excited when we decided to meet again on Friday night.

I waited for him outside his apartment.

This time, he looked different! Not in a bad way.

He looked cute. He put on a cap. Just like I did on Monday night. Cute.

I brought him to Lindt, another chocolate place, at the Harbour. It was Friday night so it's closing late at 12am.


Look at the heart shaped waffles. So romantic....haha 

I felt really comfortable being with him. There wasn't even a moment of awkwardness. And, I wasn't feeling embarrassed at all going out with a guy. I felt like I was in a world where they were only two of us. 

We chatted. And again, he was caressing my lap under the table. *shy shy*

We walked around the other side of the Harbour and I suggested that we visit the casino. It's just a 10 min walk away from the Harbour. 

He took a selfie of us but the picture was 'noisy' as it was quite dark. 

He's not a gambler, just like me, so we were just exploring around. 

Finally, I had my first gambling experience in a casino. I've never gambled before. We were at a Roulette table. The staff there briefly told us the bets that we could make and the prices. 

And, he took out $100 before I could stop him! I was like, what, that's a lot, and both of us don't know how to play. 

And, unsurprisingly, the $100 was gone in less than 5 minutes. Do Not Gamble Guys!

We had to choose which numbers to bet on and both of us chose number 17 as the first number at the same time! haha

We exited the casino not long after. Again, I brought him to a secluded area. haha..Wasn't planning anything, just wanted to show him the apartments at the harbour. Maybe, subconsciously, I was having something in mind haha. 

There's a park and blocks of luxurious apartments by the harbour. It's a very quiet area, and kinda dark. Perfect dating spot. 

We sat down on a bench. He moved closer. We held hands and we talked. 

He told me more about his business, his partner, his life, etc. I forgot what I had told him. I felt that he trusted me. And I enjoyed listening to him. 

My hands were cold that night, and he was my heater. We joked about how I sucked away all his heat energy. When one hand was heated up, I gave him the other hand. I miss that moment. 

Suddenly, he turned to me and kissed me on my lips. And amazingly, I didn't resist. I didn't feel weird. It just happened so naturally. It was beautiful. 

It wasn't even deep french kissing. I kept it short. I told him I didn't know how to handle this (my relationship with him) appropriately. I know he has a bf in HK, I know they weren't attracted to each other so much now, but I am his friend. I don't want to make this relationship short-lived. 

There were one or two couples who walked past us that night, when we were being intimate on the bench. But it was just a few seconds of 'disruption' and my attention was back on him again. He's that charming. 

Time passed so quickly. It was alreaday 1.30am when we checked the time. 

We walked back to Chinatown so that he could go home and I could catch a cab. We were holding hands till the cab came. 

To be continued.... 

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  1. So far so good =) the sweet feeling of dating one u like

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  2. Will it be a good ending? Ok, can we just stop here, haha.

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  3. A sweet date, but I'm a bit cautious with a BF in transit

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