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His Salmon
My Pork Knuckle, cabbage and Rosti

German Beer! They were nice!
We met up for dinner yesterday. I was so exhausted by evening as I had two meetings in the afternoon, things to do in the morning, and poor sleep the night before. I felt like I could just fall asleep sitting on the bus. 

But it was arranged, plus I wanted to see him la. Also, maybe I wanted to try to be like Williamnyk, so to many things in one day haha. 

Good that he was thinking of having a hair cut, so he didn't have to wait for me doing nothing. 

He suggested German, as he had this voucher and said that he's been and the food was quite good. 

I think I had never had German previously?? 

I was expecting like a fine-dining European setting, but it was actually like an everyday cafe, except that it's serving German food. Business was good. Crowd was mostly Whites. 

Germans are famous for their beer, and they had a long list of beers for us to choose from. We didn't know which one was which, so we just asked for recommendations. He had the darker one. When he asked for the dark one, there was something with the waiter's facial expression. A little bit surprised, evil?, impressed? Hard to say exactly what he was thinking. Maybe it's something that only Germans would go for? I don't know. He's not German by the way. I prefer rice :P

He chose the pork knuckle for me. It's huge. I wasn't able to finish it. Oh, and as I don't really drink, the beer was half finished by me. Then, the rest by him, he's thrifty haha. 

The salmon was pretty standard. 

Dinner followed by walk. Very. Long. Walk. 

Well, as we were close to Sydney's Red Light District, I suggested that we should have a look. Nothing worse than the one in KL. Can someone remind me what's the street next to Jalan Alor? I was there last time, and it was full of prostitutes, massage parlours, police, etc....

Two or three men approached us and was trying to shove us some pamphlets, I could see some semi naked pics on them. 

We just kept walking loh. And I was trying to grab his balls but then being a nice person, I didn't do it actually la, just scaring him as we walked. But u know what! He slapped mine! It wasn't the worst one but nevertheless, it was a very unpleasant feeling! Need to revenge. 

Then we walked past the military base, some hotels/serviced apartments, and finally to a park. Very long walk. 

And we decided to have a break. Sat on a bench. Talked. Then I lay on his lap as we continued to talk. By the way, you get a different view in that position. I got to see the trees above us, and it was nice listening to him in such a close proximity. 

Then I asked him how did he find me. That's when the situation became a little bit serious haha. 

Initially his answers were along those lines. 'I find you quite nice, but...' 'hmm i don't feel secured with your past' 

I told him not to feel pressured or anything. Because I was happy with how things were. There's no need for a change.

Still lying on his lap. 

And then, after a little while, there came the kiss. I was surprised! I thought he didn't want to proceed with anything. But hey, it was good. 

Given the spontaneity, I asked for a second one! 

It wasn't the french kiss la. Nonetheless, it was sweet. I think I was a bit shy, but I 'embraced' it lol. And actually...I could feel a hard-on almost instantly! Mine hard-on not his. It was like a brain signal got fired into my dick. It was almost like a reflex! 

I could feel he was warmer too! but can't feel the hard-on :( 

We had to go home not long after that as it was late. He had to catch a train back while I had to take a bus. 

Oh, and he had two jackets with him yesterday. And he put one of them on me while we were in the park. How thoughtful! 

We decided not to 'restrict' ourselves with statuses like 'dating'. As long as we know who we are for each other thats enough. 

Some points for me to bear in mind. Do not be clingy. Do not think I possess him in anyway. 


Comments

  1. I saw my name! Are my schedules that packed? LOL.
    Sounds like a sweet date. What 'past' was he referring to?

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    1. Yes, you always have so many things planned in a day!

      Oh, I told him that I had sex with strangers, (but not all of them!)

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