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Will I see you again?

It's almost 12 now and I'm actually quite exhausted. Though my words may not be very organized but I guess it's good to pen it down before I go to bed.

Have been kinda busy yesterday and today. Had to continue with marking the papers and today was running back and forth from uni to retrieve some documents. Brought him to see the JP to get some documents certified. Continued with marking. Came home shower and closed my eyes for 20 mins and headed out to his place again.

Before working on the visa, we had dinner. It was his treat. Probably I was tired or was I in a worry/emo mode, he kept saying that I didn't look like I was enjoying the food. I told I was just tired. But actually my mind was away.

There were lots of things on my mind. For a moment, i was thinking about this relationship thing. Have you ever tried asking your ex about 'his current bf'? The feeling was weird. And for the next moment, I couldn't help but to worry about my health, or the probability of getting HIV to be precise.

I'm not sure if I have written about it clearly here. It may not sound rational to you but it's so rational for me. I discovered sore as a result of my wisdom tooth biting on my cheek, the day after i had sex with the guy. It was about ten days ago. And why am i so worried? Because of the sore, I don't know if it's already there that night and also there was a lot of precum in my mouth which I held for a few seconds then spitted it out.

The visa application has been successfully lodged for him. He walked me to the bus stand. There was no hug or kiss or anything intimate. I didn't want to initiate. He has a bf now and it's bad if I try to do anything.

I guess we have no reason to see each other again? Anyway, I have done what I could to help him. And I am happy that I could help. If he really likes this guy, then all I can do is to with all the best for them.

My throat is kinda dry and uncomfortable tonight. I am trying not to overthink as much as I can. It's done, the thing has happened after all. There's nothing I can change I know.

Being busy is really good because these two days, by the time I got home it's already so late that I only had time to shower, relax a bit and go to bed. I will finish marking tomorrow. He wouldn't need me for the time being.


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  1. UnknownNovember 21, 2013 at 1:39 AM

    You dealt it well =) Sometimes busy is good, stop yourself think too much on other stuff. Squeeze a smile in front of mirror every morning, it helps =) *wink*

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